In the Catholic Church, Confirmation is one of the sacraments of initiation, and it is generally required before marriage. However, being confirmed in 8th grade doesn't automatically mean you *can* get married in the church.
Here's a breakdown of the factors involved:
* Age Requirement: The Catholic Church requires that both parties be of the canonical age to marry. This age is generally 16, but in some places, it might be higher. A dispensation is required to marry if either party is under the age of 16.
* Other Requirements: Beyond Confirmation and age, there are other requirements for marriage in the Catholic Church, including:
* Freedom to Marry: Both parties must be free to marry (not already married to someone else).
* Intent: Both parties must freely consent to the marriage and intend it to be permanent, faithful, and open to children.
* Preparation: Couples are required to participate in marriage preparation programs or classes.
* No Impediments: There must be no impediments to the marriage (e.g., close blood relation).
* Confirmation is a usual Prerequisite: Canon Law says that Catholics who have not received Confirmation are to receive it before being admitted to marriage, if it can be done without grave inconvenience (Canon 1065 §1). So while not strictly a requirement, you would be expected to be confirmed prior to your wedding.
In Summary:
Getting confirmed in 8th grade means you fulfill one of the usual requirements for getting married in the Catholic Church. However, you must also meet the age requirement and all other requirements of Canon Law for marriage and work with the Church to ensure a valid marriage.